Monday, 22 December 2014

Could there be space for all of us?

Recently someone of mixed descent posted a question on the social networks about his own search for identity. He asked: Am I a Coloured (a term used in Southern Africa for people of mixed descent) or a Baster (a term used in Namibia for people of mixed descent – with their roots in Rehoboth)?

The answers were interesting, yet disturbing at the same time. It was interesting because it gave voice to people’s struggle with identity. But it was disturbing in the sense that it exposed (again) the deep divisions that permeate the society that I come from. Again, I was struck by and driven to tears by the intolerance for “others”.

Someone even used the land ownership argument: “Coloureds do not have land or a place that they can call their own!” I was disgusted and pained at the same time. You see, my father is a so called Coloured who came to live in Rehoboth as a child – Baster people used to refer to my family as “inkommers” (those coming from the outside). In fact they even had a very derogatory word from the Nama language to refer to us – this was of course always used in reference to land ownership.

What is ironic for me is that this same group of people were pushed off their land in South Africa and forced North where they eventually was met in true African hospitality by the original inhabitants of Rehoboth – and they were given land to live on. Of course this is where the debate becomes a hefty one – Baster people believe that they bought Rehoboth from its original inhabitants. This is something I question: Did the original inhabitants of Rehoboth even have a word for ownership in their language? We now know that the traditional view held by Africans at the time was that land belonged to the community (and was never vested in the name of any one individual). Could it be that the original inhabitants simply offered the vulnerable group form the Cape simple hospitality – to find rest and refuge after their horrible ordeals with their White oppressors? And could it be that that misunderstanding led to that brutal battle between these two groups later on?

Whatever the answer to this – it is clear in my mind that the original inhabitants of Rehoboth could have refused the Baster people any form of hospitality – but they chose to provide them with a place of refuge. In fact, such was the gratitude, that they called the place Rehoboth (there is now space for all of us).

As said earlier, it is ironic, that this place, Rehoboth (where there should be place for all of us), have become a place of exclusion and intolerance of “others”. It has always been one of my deepest pains that the original inhabitants of Rehoboth have become second hand citizens on the land of their forebears and that the victims of oppression (in this case the Baster people) have become the abusers of another.

Should we (of mixed descent) who know the pain of exclusion, not have greater empathy for others? Should we not be reconcilers, instead of dividers? In fact, I wondered if any Baster leader have ever apologized to the Nama speaking residents of Rehoboth for the many years of pain inflicted on them?

As a Christian, I strongly hold to the belief that I should always be living for and exemplifying the values of Jesus: hope, peace, joy, love, justice, equality, tolerance, etc. These are values that I first learnt in Rehoboth (that have always staked claim to its Christian character). This Christmas I have one wish – that Rehoboth shall become a place “where there is now space for all of us”, that these unhealthy divisive discussions about who’s in and who’s out, will be turned into discussions about how we can live together as people reflecting the values that Jesus represents.

(Postscript: I have lived both in Rehoboth and outside Rehoboth, in Namibia and outside Namibia, in Africa and outside of the African continent – and I know many Baster people who have done the same and who have contributed to the socio-economic and political lives of those communities where they have lived/live. Can we do the same for others who come to live in Rehoboth?)


Keise Eio/ Thank you/ Baie Dankie

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